By Tesia Anigbo
I kept wondering why couples or people that are still dating end up seeing each other as a night mare. Let’s evaluate this…..
While dating, they will love each other so very much as if there is no tomorrow, and when they get married, it becomes a different story.
Hmmmm… Love is a beautiful thing like I will always say but full of mystery. Now listen to me as a man or woman out there, you are the cause of the different story. In the beginning you tasted like honey to your partner but in the end you are sour. Has it ever occurred to you that there is something called TRAGEDY IN LOVE? No, I don’t think you do because if you do, then you could have probably been prepared for it!
Human being fade, is not easy to be with a woman or man for your entire life, that’s why you need to renew yourself each day with seriousness because if that your home or relationship should have a scratch then, you are inviting tragedy to yourselves.
“Human being fade, is not easy to be with a woman or man for your entire life, that’s why you need to renew yourself each day with seriousness because if that your home or relationship should have a scratch then, you are inviting tragedy to yourselves.”
When I say renew yourself, I mean, upgrade to that standard that will make your partner astonished. As a woman, upgrade your cooking skills cause to get a man is through his tummy, upgrade your fashion sense, avoid tying wrapper showing your body to public, real men hate that, don’t wear a cloth because the other woman wore it because you are the master to your body not hers.
Also, upgrade your prayer skills and schedule, a woman who wants her home to be in order must be consulting the almighty Oracle in heaven,.
Another area is to upgrade your sexual skills. Before you push your man to sex dolls and I bet you, you won’t find it funny.
As a man, learn to give a listening ear even if she is talking rubbish. Also upgrade your sexual abilities because she deserve it and you as a man deserve it too. You should also work on your cooking skills because once in a while you have to visit the kitchen. Some men are good cook, so you have to beat her to that and trust me, your home will be fun.
Meanwhile, you need to upgrade your hustling skills as a man. No woman will want to stay with a man who cannot provide her basic needs. In fact, your ability to cater for her needs makes the bond between the two of you stronger.
You should also learn to give her corrections no matter how it hurts but it should be in private. There are lots of things to do in renewing yourself and with this little tips I have mentioned, I know that once you put it to practice as a man or woman out there in serious relationship or marriage, people will ask questions about the two of you and positive response will be heard….
Still your gal, TESIA on Not fantasy but truth on relationship of man with a woman…