Why did Rosalind Ross and Mel Gibson really split after 9 years together? Inside the quiet breakup
Rosalind Ross and Mel Gibson in 2017. Image Credit: Stephen Lovekin/WWD/Penske Media via Getty
Screenwriter Rosalind Ross and Oscar-winning actor-director Mel Gibson have officially gone their separate ways after nine years together, PEOPLE has confirmed. The couple, who share an 8-year-old son, Lars, quietly split about a year ago, choosing to keep the breakup private while focusing on co-parenting.
In an exclusive joint statement, Ross and Gibson emphasized unity despite the end of their romantic relationship, saying they remain committed to raising their son together.
“Although it’s sad to end this chapter in our lives, we are blessed with a beautiful son and will continue to be the best parents possible,” the pair told PEOPLE.
Who Is Rosalind Ross?
Rosalind Ross, 35, is a screenwriter and former competitive equestrian vaulter who rose to prominence both through her creative work and her long-term relationship with Gibson. She is best known for writing the screenplay for Father Stu, a film Gibson later produced and starred in.
Despite being in a high-profile relationship, Ross has largely maintained a low public profile, rarely giving interviews and keeping her personal life private, a pattern that extended to the couple’s separation.
A Relationship That Began in 2014
Ross and Gibson met through mutual friends in 2014 and quickly began dating. At the time, their 34-year age difference drew public attention, but the couple remained largely unfazed by scrutiny.
They welcomed their son Lars in 2017, just days before Gibson received an Academy Award nomination for Best Director for Hacksaw Ridge.
Reflecting on that moment, Gibson once said:
“What could be more exciting than listening to the nominations being announced while holding my newborn son?”
Why the Breakup Stayed Private
According to PEOPLE, the couple actually split about a year ago, opting not to announce it publicly. Sources close to the situation suggest the decision was driven by a desire to protect their child’s privacy and avoid unnecessary media attention.
Notably, there has been no public drama, legal dispute, or custody battle, setting this breakup apart from many high-profile Hollywood separations.
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Co-Parenting Their Son Lars
Ross and Gibson share joint focus on co-parenting, making it clear their son remains their top priority.
Lars is Gibson’s youngest child. The actor has eight older children from previous relationships:
- Seven children with ex-wife Robyn Moore
- Daughter Lucia, 16, with musician Oksana Grigorieva
In recent years, Lars has occasionally appeared alongside his father at public events, including the 2024 premiere of Monster Summer, where he attended with his half-sister Lucia.
Life Challenges After the Split
In January 2025, Ross and Gibson faced another major life disruption when their Malibu home was destroyed in the Los Angeles wildfires. Gibson confirmed that while the property was lost, their family and animals were safely evacuated.
“The good news is that those I love are all well,” Gibson said at the time. “That’s all that really matters.”
What’s Next for Rosalind Ross and Mel Gibson
Professionally, Ross continues to focus on screenwriting and development projects, while Gibson is currently working on The Resurrection of the Christ, a long-anticipated follow-up to The Passion of the Christ. The film is scheduled for release in two parts, beginning Good Friday, March 26, 2027.
Neither Ross nor Gibson has indicated plans to publicly discuss the breakup further.
FAQ
Who is Rosalind Ross?
Rosalind Ross is an American screenwriter and former champion equestrian vaulter, best known for her relationship with Mel Gibson and her work on Father Stu.
Did Rosalind Ross and Mel Gibson break up?
Yes. The couple confirmed they separated after nine years together, quietly splitting about a year ago.
Why did Rosalind Ross and Mel Gibson split?
No specific reason has been publicly given. Both emphasized mutual respect and a shared commitment to co-parenting their son.
Do Rosalind Ross and Mel Gibson have children together?
Yes. They share one son, Lars, who is 8 years old.
Are Rosalind Ross and Mel Gibson on good terms?
Yes. Their joint statement makes clear they are focused on healthy co-parenting and remain respectful toward one another.
Is Rosalind Ross dating anyone new?
There is no public information indicating that Ross is currently dating.
Will Rosalind Ross continue working in film?
Yes. Ross remains active as a screenwriter, though she tends to keep her projects low-profile.
