Not only for the ladies…men also deserve love, care and attention

By Tesia Anigbo

When I mean a man, I mean a man that is mature and has lost his boyish attitude.

We ladies, think that we are the only ones that deserve care, love and attention forgetting that man also has feelings. Men are to be loved and pampered like babies and it’s your duty as a woman to make that happen. If you don’t do it, who else will? His mom or other intending women?

“We ladies, think that we are the only ones that deserve care, love and attention forgetting that man also has feelings. Men are to be loved and pampered like babies and it’s your duty as a woman to make that happen. If you don’t do it, who else will? His mom or other intending women?”  

Common, we have what it takes to keep a man. Some ladies are of the impression that the man is meant to shower them with love first before they reciprocate and sadly it shows that you’re taking him for granted. This is the truth and we need to accept it. Some girls find it so hard to make their man happy, why? Because they lack the ability to be “ROMANTIC”.

Some ladies find it difficult to know when their man needs to change his wardrobe, shave, wear the proper clothing and accessories for an occasion. Some will go all the way to defend themselves by saying that the man is meant to handle himself and the woman herself. This shouldn’t be so. A man needs to get attention from his woman because it is important, though we might see it as unnecessary… it matters a lot.

When you look good, make your man look good, make him smile at least once a day, you both should sit together and discuss, no matter how busy you are try to remind him that you’re his queen solidly behind him. Though some men are so adamant and self-absorbed in issues like this, keep trying because for relationships to succeed, there must be constant effort.

Sometimes, let him sleep off on your laps, stomach, a kiss in the morning, pray together, ask him how his day was, ask about his work, run a bath for him, prepare a delicious meal for him who knows, something more successful will come from your effort.

My fellow women, let us learn to show love. Let’s be creative, romantic and a companion which God made us to be and not a Threat!! To the men out there, when you have such woman that treats you like a king, do not take her for granted.