Woman allegedly stabs husband to death: Here’s how to avoid conflict in marriage

A domestic dispute turned tragic on Wednesday night in the Gbeyi area of Adegbayi, Ibadan, as 33-year-old Comfort Olalere Tinubu allegedly stabbed her husband, 39-year-old Olusegun Tinubu, to death. The incident which reportedly occurred around 10 p.m., left neighbours in shock.

The couple, who had been married for three years and have two children, allegedly began arguing after Olusegun accused Comfort of locking him out of their bedroom. According to a family source, who spoke on condition of anonymity, the argument escalated when Olusegun confronted Comfort over her absence from the home between 7 a.m. and 7 p.m. that day.

The source explained that the situation intensified when Olusegun allegedly slapped Comfort as she lay breastfeeding their baby. A relative living with the couple reportedly intervened, separating them and advising Olusegun to sleep in the living room. Later, however, Comfort allegedly approached her husband in the living room and stabbed him in the back. Olusegun was taken to the hospital but was pronounced dead shortly after arrival.

Initially reported at Gbagi Police Station, the case has been transferred to the Homicide Section of the State Criminal Investigation Department (SCID) in Iyaganku, Ibadan.

Oyo State Police spokesperson Adewale Osifeso confirmed Comfort Tinubu’s arrest and stated that an investigation is underway. Further updates will follow.

How to avoid conflict in marriage

Marriage is a partnership filled with love, trust, and companionship. However, as with any relationship, conflicts can arise. While disagreements are normal, sometimes they can escalate into severe arguments, risking both the health of the relationship and the well-being of the individuals involved. Preventing conflicts in marriage requires understanding, open communication, and practical strategies to foster a healthy, safe, and loving environment.

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Here’s 7 keys on how couples can prevent conflicts.

1. Communicate Openly and Honestly

Clear communication is essential in any marriage. Partners should feel safe sharing their thoughts and emotions without fear of judgment or backlash. To communicate effectively you need to listen actively, express your feelings calmly and be truthful.

2. Practice Patience and Understanding

Understanding your partner’s background, triggers, and personality is crucial. Patience helps create a safe space for both individuals to feel accepted. Sometimes, stress from work or other areas of life might affect your partner’s behavior. Instead of reacting immediately, take time to understand the root of the issue. Ensure to recognise triggers, show empathy and give space when needed.

3. Learn Conflict Resolution Skills

Disagreements don’t have to turn into fights. Learning to resolve conflicts healthily strengthens the relationship and creates a better environment. Tips include staying calm, focusing on the issue, not the person and being willing to compromise.

4. Set Boundaries and Respect Them

Boundaries are essential to any healthy relationship. These include emotional, physical, and conversational boundaries that both partners should respect. Essentially, ensure to agree on boundaries, respect personal space and protect physical boundaries.

5. Seek Professional Help When Needed

Some issues might be too complex or deeply rooted for a couple to resolve on their own. In these cases, seeking help from a licensed marriage counselor or therapist can be beneficial. Anger management classes and support groups are also helpful.

6. Focus on Positivity and Gratitude

In a marriage, focusing on what you appreciate about your partner can go a long way toward building a strong bond. So, celebrate small successes, practice gratitude, remind yourself daily of the qualities you love in your partner and forgive and move forward.

7. Build a Support System

Marriages are enriched by having strong connections outside the relationship, like friends, family, or mentors who can offer advice, perspective, and support. Engage with trusted loved ones, spend time apart and ask for guidance.