Why should women give their kids s3x education? See BBNaija Doyin’s story 

The famous Big Brother Naija’s season 7 reality television show housemate, Doyinsola Anuoluwapo David, better known as Doyin, has opened up about her personal experiences and the importance of communication between parents and their female children.

Doyin revealed in a podcast interview, “When I lost my virginity, I spoke to my mum about it. And I said, ‘Mummy, see, this does not feel this way.’ We had a conversation, and she told me what I should do. She asked, “Did you use a condom?” This incident highlights the significance of creating an environment in which children feel comfortable discussing sensitive topics with their parents.

Doyin further emphasized the need for parents to foster such an atmosphere, stating, “Parents need to create that kind of environment where their kids can open up to them. There is nothing I cannot say to my mum.” Her relationship with her mother serves as a testament to the powerful bond formed when parents actively engage with their children.

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Reflecting on her s3xual experience, Doyin admitted, “I was not enjoying s3x for a while, and I said it to my mum. And I asked her, ‘Am I circumcised?’ because I read somewhere that if you are circumcised… She said no and did not make me feel bad about it.” This exchange highlights the significance of a non-judgmental approach from parents, enabling their children to express concerns and seek guidance freely.

Doyin passionately believes that creating a safe and understanding environment begins at home. She asserts, “Parents need to create an environment where their kids can speak to them about anything. At the end of the day, either they speak to you or they are speaking to someone else.” By fostering open lines of communication, parents can support their children in navigating important life experiences and decisions.

Here are 5 key reasons to consider; 

Empowerment: By discussing sex education with their daughters, mothers equip them with the knowledge and information they need to make informed and responsible decisions about their bodies, relationships, and s3xual health.

Safety: Conversations about s3x education allow mothers to educate their daughters about the potential risks and dangers associated with sexual interactions, such as sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and unplanned pregnancies. This knowledge helps girls protect themselves and prioritize their well-being.

Avoiding misinformation: By guiding their daughters through s3x education, mothers can counter misinformation and myths that circulate among peers or unreliable sources. This helps ensure that girls receive accurate and reliable information, rather than basing their knowledge on misconceptions.

Emotional well-being: S3xuality and s3xual experiences can evoke various emotions. Through conversations about s3x education, mothers can address these emotions, fostering a sense of emotional well-being for their daughters and providing a safe space to discuss any concerns or questions.

Healthy body image: S3x education encompasses discussions about body image, helping girls understand that there is no “ideal” body type and that each person’s uniqueness should be celebrated. This can contribute to positive self-esteem and a healthier body image for girls as they navigate issues of s3xuality.

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However, Doyin’s journey demonstrates the impact of parental support and communication. Her story serves as a reminder to parents to create an environment where their children feel comfortable discussing any topic, ensuring that they can make informed choices and seek guidance within the safety of their family circle.