Ramadan: When couples can have intercourse

Ramadan is a holy month in Islam, during which Muslims around the world fast from dawn until sunset as a way of purifying the soul, practicing self-discipline, and gaining closeness to Allah. 

During this month, there are certain rules and guidelines that Muslims must adhere to, including abstaining from food, drink, smoking, and sexual activity during daylight hours.

One of the most commonly asked questions during Ramadan is whether married couples are allowed to engage in sexual intercourse while fasting. The answer to this question varies among different Islamic scholars and schools of thought, but the majority agree that it is permissible for married couples to have intimate relations during the night hours, after breaking their fast and before beginning the next day’s fast.

The Qur’an explicitly mentions that spouses are each other’s garment and that they should seek refuge in each other from Satan, indicating that marital relations are not only permissible but encouraged within the bounds of marriage. Additionally, the Prophet Muhammad himself reportedly engaged in sexual relations with his wives during Ramadan.

According to Legit.ng’s report, Professor Sherifdeen Kareem, the Imam of the Federal University of Agriculture in Abeokuta Mosque in Ogun state, disclosed that Muslim couples can have intimacy during Ramadan, but only after their fast for the day has ended.

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The religious leader stated that unmarried couples are strictly restricted, maintaining that only legally married couples are allowed to copulate between the hour of breaking the fasting and taking the pre-dawn meal (Maghrib and Solatul Subhi) during the Ramadan period.

However, it is important for couples to remember that while intimate relations are allowed during Ramadan, it is essential to approach them with respect and moderation. This means avoiding excessive or inappropriate behavior, maintaining proper hygiene, and ensuring that both partners are comfortable and willing.

It is also crucial to be mindful of the spiritual aspect of Ramadan and not let physical desires overshadow the true purpose of the fast. Engaging in intimate relations with one’s spouse during Ramadan should not detract from one’s devotion to Allah, but rather enhance the bond between husband and wife and strengthen the marital relationship.

In conclusion, while there may be differing opinions among Islamic scholars regarding the permissibility of sexual relations during Ramadan, the general consensus is that it is allowed for married couples during the night hours. 

However, it is important for couples to approach this aspect of their relationship with respect, moderation, and a focus on the spiritual significance of the holy month. By doing so, couples can navigate this aspect of Ramadan with mindfulness and intentionality, while still honoring the sanctity of their marriage and their faith.