What happened to Kate Bush friend Matthew Upham during the Christmas day swim? Why is she heartbroken?
Kate Bush performs at in London on August 26th, 2014. Image Credit: Ken McKay/Rex/REX USA
Legendary singer-songwriter Kate Bush has spoken of her heartbreak following the disappearance of one of her closest friends during a Christmas Day sea swim in Devon, an incident that has shocked the local community and drawn national attention.
In an emotional tribute published on her official website, the 67-year-old Running Up That Hill star confirmed that Matthew Upham, a local antiques dealer and longtime friend, went missing after entering the sea at Budleigh Salterton on 25 December.
Bush described Upham as one of her “very dearest friends,” revealing the pair had known each other for more than 30 years.
What Happened at Budleigh Salterton on Christmas Day
Emergency services were alerted shortly after 10:25 GMT when two men, aged in their 40s and 60s, failed to return from a swim off the Devon coast.
A major search operation was launched involving the RNLI, UK coastguard, and other emergency responders. Despite hours of intensive efforts, the search was called off around 17:00 GMT, with authorities later confirming that the men had not been located.
Police inquiries remain ongoing, according to the latest update from Devon and Cornwall Police.
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Kate Bush’s Emotional Tribute to Matthew Upham
In a deeply personal statement, Kate Bush paid tribute to Upham’s character, calling him “extraordinarily kind, thoughtful and full of life.”
“He was one of those people who touched everyone he met,” Bush wrote.
“He was extraordinarily kind, thoughtful and lived life to the full.
He was also a great deal of fun.”
She noted that Upham, who was in his 60s, was a strong swimmer with a love for the sea and kayaking, adding that he understood the importance of respecting the ocean.
“It’s so tragic that he lost his life this way,” she said.
“The world has lost someone incredibly special.”
Bush concluded by expressing solidarity with Upham’s family, saying they were “heartbroken,” adding: “Along with many of his friends, so am I.”
Family Pays Tribute as Search Ends
Upham’s family later released a statement via his business’s Instagram account, describing him as a “beloved” family member who would be “forever missed.”
They also extended heartfelt thanks to emergency responders:
“We would like to express our sincere and heartfelt thanks to the emergency services, particularly the RNLI and coastguard, for their dedication and tireless efforts.”
The family requested privacy as they continue to grieve.
Police Investigation Continues
As of 26 December, police confirmed that inquiries are ongoing, though no further details have been released. The BBC has contacted Devon and Cornwall Police for additional comment.
The incident has reignited safety discussions around cold-water swimming and seasonal sea conditions along the UK coast.
A Rare Public Moment From a Private Artist
Kate Bush, famously private and rarely visible in public life, seldom releases personal statements. Her decision to speak openly underscores the depth of the loss and the significance of Upham’s role in her life.
Fans across social media have shared messages of support, praising Bush’s words for their warmth and humanity.
FAQ
Who is Matthew Upham?
Matthew Upham was a Devon-based antiques dealer and a close friend of Kate Bush for over 30 years.
What happened to Kate Bush’s friend?
He went missing during a Christmas Day swim at Budleigh Salterton in Devon.
Is Matthew Upham still missing?
As of the latest police update, he has not been found and inquiries are ongoing.
Did Kate Bush release a statement?
Yes. Kate Bush shared an emotional tribute on her official website, saying she was “heartbroken.”
Where did the incident occur?
The incident happened off the coast of Budleigh Salterton, Devon, England.
Were emergency services involved?
Yes. The RNLI and UK coastguard conducted a multi-hour search operation.
Was Matthew Upham an experienced swimmer?
According to Kate Bush, he was a strong swimmer with experience in kayaking and sea activity.
Has the search been called off?
Yes. The coastguard ended the active search on Christmas Day evening.
