Jerry Adler dies at 96: What you need to know about the Sopranos star

Jerry Adler, the esteemed actor known for his iconic role as Herman “Hesh” Rabkin on The Sopranos, has passed away at the age of 96. From a distinguished career behind the scenes on Broadway to becoming a beloved presence on television later in life, Adler’s journey was as unexpected as it was remarkable. Here’s what you need to know about his legacy.

From Broadway Backstage to On-Screen Stardom

Adler spent decades working in theater, not as an actor, but often behind the curtains. He contributed to over 50 Broadway productions as a stage manager, producer, or director, including the original runs of classics like My Fair Lady, The Apple Tree, Annie, and The Homecoming.

Despite his deep involvement with theater, he didn’t step into acting until his 60s, an unusual late-start that nonetheless led to a flourishing screen career

The Sopranos Icon: Hesh Rabkin

Adler’s breakthrough on television came as Herman “Hesh” Rabkin, Tony Soprano’s trusted adviser, in The Sopranos. He portrayed this memorable character across six seasons, from the pilot onward, earning admiration for his sharp wit and grounded presence in the Soprano universe.

Fans particularly recall his poignant line, “He was just a kid,” which became one of Hesh’s most quoted moments.

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A Late-Life Screen Renaissance

Following The Sopranos, Adler became a familiar face on television. He played Howard Lyman on The Good Wife (and its spin-off The Good Fight), contributing to both shows across multiple seasons, even though the role was initially intended as a one-off appearance.

Adler also appeared in a range of popular series, including Rescue Me, Northern Exposure, Mad About You, Transparent, Broad City, and The West Wing. His film work included roles in Manhattan Murder Mystery, In Her Shoes, Synecdoche, New York, and A Most Violent Year.

Passing Peacefully in New York

Jerry Adler passed away on August 23, 2025, in New York City, “peacefully in his sleep,” according to family statements confirmed by Riverside Memorial Chapel and Paradigm Talent Agency. No cause of death has been disclosed.

He is survived by his wife, Joan Laxman, and their four daughters.

Legacy: A Beloved Late-Blooming Star

Adler’s passing prompted a wave of heartfelt tributes. Co-star Steven Van Zandt wrote, “Such an honor working with you. Travel well my friend.” Meanwhile, The Good Wife creator Robert King fondly recalled how Adler’s diner scene earned him a long-running role: “We had him back for six years…”.

His remarkable trajectory, from backstage craftsman to recognized acting talent, cemented his place as an unexpected luminary whose warmth, humor, and depth resonated with colleagues and fans alike.

Jerry Adler’s life reminds us that passion and talent can flourish, no matter when you start. His journey across theater, television, and film will remain a testament to versatility, wit, and devoted craft.