Is 2Baba right that men are not built to sexually be with just one woman?
Veteran Nigerian musician 2Baba sparked a heated debate after stating that “a man is not built to sexually be with just one woman” during a recent podcast with Nedu Wazobia. The comment, which he defended by citing biology and polygamy, has triggered strong reactions both supporting and criticising his viewpoint.
What 2Baba Said
In the viral clip, 2Baba clarified that while a man’s heart, love, and respect may belong solely to one partner, sexual exclusivity is biologically challenging. He said, “A man can love one woman die, but when it comes to that sexual satisfaction it’s hard… it’s the biology of man”. He emphasised a natural inclination towards polygamy and encouraged public acknowledgement of this reality.
Supporters Weigh In
Some social media users and cultural commentators echoed 2Baba’s sentiment, claiming his view reflects biological truth and African traditions. A report noted: “He is right that men are not built to be with one woman.” In some polygamous societies, multiple partners remain socially accepted, supporters argued that acknowledging human nature could reduce relationship stress.
Critics Push Back
Others have condemned the remarks as a “justification for infidelity” and a dangerous oversimplification of human behavior. Critics argue that biology does not excuse cheating and that men are capable of monogamy through emotional commitment and self-control. Some called 2Baba’s theory “regressive” and “pseudoscience” used to evade accountability.
Broader Relationship Debate
2Baba’s comments reopened discussions on fidelity, gender expectations, and modern relationships. Many believe emotional fidelity should be valued equally with sexual fidelity. Some suggested that transparent communication—or consensual non-monogamy—can address unmet needs rather than blame biology. The conversation highlights cultural shifts in balancing tradition, love, and personal boundaries.
2Baba’s Personal Context
The musician, married to Annie Idibia since 2012 but currently separated, has been open about past challenges in his marriage. He noted that while he and Annie had an amicable separation, maintaining a long-term partnership often requires honesty, even when societal norms demand monogamy.
Whether agreed with or criticised, 2Baba’s assertion pushes people to re-examine assumptions about male sexuality and relationship structure. It begs the question: Is monogamy a socially enforced ideal or an updatable personal choice? As conversations evolve, one thing is certain, 2Baba has reignited a candid, necessary debate.