How to have your dream wedding without breaking a bank

Jide finally popped the question, and now you’re preparing to walk down the aisle. But let’s be honest—what is a wedding if it’s not BellaNaija standard?

Nkechi, I get it. You are already practicing the “off the market” wedding hit with your girls. You don’t want to skip any of the now-four marriage stages—introduction, traditional wedding, court wedding, and church wedding. Oh, and let’s not forget the grand thanksgiving that must “give” what it’s supposed to give.

You’re excited, and rightly so! You’ve probably started listing everything—catering, venue, traditional attire, wedding dresses, decorations, and, of course, that infamous aso ebi. Then there’s the sea of family, friends, and even the “friends of family” you’ve never met.

But hey, hold up! Reality check—this is 2024, and we’re all feeling the pinch of the economy. You definitely don’t want to throw a glamorous wedding that leaves your bank account in ruins or have “debit alert” serenading you with heartbreak songs. Even worse, starting married life juggling debts and dealing with sapa is no one’s dream.

Don’t panic—there’s good news. You don’t have to empty your savings or take loans to have a beautiful wedding. With smart planning and thoughtful decisions, you can have a celebration that’s both memorable and budget-friendly. Here’s how:

1. Plan Within Your Means

It’s tempting to go all out to impress, but remember, it’s your wedding, not a competition. Create a realistic budget based on your income and savings. Prioritize essentials like venue, food, and attire. Avoid unnecessary splurges, like extravagant souvenirs or overly elaborate decor.

2. Downsize the Guest List
A smaller guest list means less money spent on food, drinks, and seating. Resist the urge to invite everyone you know. Focus on family and close friends who genuinely matter to you.

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3. Opt for Affordable Venues
Instead of a five-star event center, consider options like church halls, community centers, or family compounds. Some venues even allow you to bring your own caterers, saving on costs.

4. DIY Where Possible
You can save a lot by doing some things yourself. For example, create simple yet elegant centerpieces with fresh flowers or artificial ones. If you’re artistic, consider designing your own invitations and programs.

5. Cut Down on Aso Ebi Expenses
Aso ebi is deeply rooted in Nigerian culture, but it can be pricey. Limit the number of fabrics you distribute or choose an affordable option. Let your guests know it’s okay to wear any attire that fits the color theme, I’m sure they’ll appreciate this.

6. Leverage Your Network
Do you have a friend who’s a photographer, makeup artist, or baker? Ask for their services at a discount or as a wedding gift. Many people are willing to help if approached respectfully.

7. Choose a Non-Peak Wedding Date

Saturday weddings in December or during festive periods are more expensive. Opt for a weekday or a less popular month to save on venue and vendor costs.

8. Streamline Your Menu
Instead of serving an elaborate buffet, stick to a few crowd-pleasing dishes. Consider offering guests drinks and small chops during the traditional wedding to avoid duplicating full-course meals.

9. Rent Instead of Buying
From bridal dresses to suits and even decor, rentals can significantly lower costs. After all, you’re likely only going to use these items once.

10. Skip the Unnecessary Extras
Things like exotic cars for the bridal convoy or fireworks during the reception might seem glamorous, but they aren’t necessary. Focus on elements that add real value to your day.